Upgrade CI system dependencies and reduce build time

[jordimas]

• Reduce CI built time by 66%
  • Switch to ARM native build instead of emulation
  • Cache static dependencies in Windows builds like oneDNN
• Upgrade CI system dependencies
  • Python 3.10 to 3.12
  • Move legacy dependencies to its own build
  • Bumped transformers (4.57→5.9.0), wurlitzer (3.0→3.1), and torch (2.6→2.12);